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hau'oli makahiki hou 2026
November 2, 2025
Michael and I received the sad news today that his nephew Marc passed away on October 15th. We don't have a lot of information but not surprisingly, he overdosed. I met Marc in 1968, when I am guessing he was about ten. He was a clever kid - a little Macgyver, as I recall. And he grew up to be a charismatic adult. He lived with Michael and me for about a year when he was in his teens and I always enjoyed my time with him. Over time, he became addicted to drugs and was never able to kick his addiction. I believe the last time I saw him was at a Christmas gathering in 2017. His mother, Joann, had recently returned to Honolulu, after living several years in Florida, and invited us to her condo in Hawaii Kai for dinner. It was a lovely dinner but little did we know that it would be her last Christmas. Joann was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer three days later, and passed away in September 2018. I miss them and remember with fondness the moments I spent with them. They had a impact on my life. Hang loose and wear lipstick... And it has occurred to me that today is All Souls' Day.
"My November Guest"
By Robert Frost
My sorrow, when she's here with me,
Thinks these dark days of autumn rain
Are beautiful as days can be;
She loves the bare, the withered tree;
She walks the sodden pasture lane.
Her pleasure will not let me stay.
She talks and I am fain to list:
She's glad the birds are gone away,
She's glad her simple worsted grey
Is silver now with clinging mist.
The desolate, deserted trees,
The faded earth, the heavy sky,
The beauties she so truly sees,
She thinks I have no eye for these,
And vexes me for reason why.
Not yesterday I learned to know
The love of bare November davs
Before the coming of the snow,
But it were vain to tell her so,
16€ And they are belter for her praise.
For the last 2 months I've been coaching Rowing again. Kit Bennet the Head Coach at Skyline(former assistant of mine from 20 years ago) asked if I would like to help out as he was short on coaches at the time. I struggled with the idea of commitment since I haven't done anything since retiring 10 years ago. It has been a roller coaster for me. Times when I felt connected and other times dissatisfied with my role. Anyway all in all I would probably say it was good for me to get out and do something again.
A quote from Sugar, "Often when you think you are at the end of something, you are at the beginning of something else."
Snow blankets the ground
The sun peaks thru wispy clouds
A dullness seems too prevail
The humming sound sits behind my ears
And oriental grasses softly flutter
Grey clouds blanket the sky
a saxophone plays a slow refrain
a stillness pervades my sole
slowly the the vain turns south and hangs there